A Letter to My Baby Daddy

Recently, You and I had a conversation concerning money.  You were afraid that you were going to be sent to jail for non-payment of child support.  Non-payment of $73 a month.  All that you are legally obligated to pay to financially support your son is $73 a month.  This is insulting to me and to your son.  Even more insulting is that you claim to be unable to afford said money each month.  Bullshit!  You CHOOSE not to afford this money every month.  Choosing to instead spend your money on things like alcohol, vacations, dinners out, partying.  I see where your son lies on your list of priorities.  Towards the bottom. 

One of the things I suggested to you was that you get another job.  A second job to help support yourself and help you support your son.  Your response to that was, "then I will never get to see my son"  Really?  when do you see him now?  Not as often as you COULD.  Another choice.

I'm working hard to give my child a good life.  He's active in sports, has a ton of friends and is all around a wonderful person.  I take full responsibility for that.  I am going to have to work two jobs so that I can get caught up on the bills I have and pay for hockey this year.  I worry that too much time without a parent is going to affect him negatively.  I worry that he doesn't think he's loved.   I can only hope that he doesn't see the choices that you make in your life and think they are an acceptable way to treat a human being that you love!

I'm hopeful that you will see what a douche bag you are and decide to do something about it.  I'm also pretty realistic in that it's not going to happen.  Get your head out of your ass and get real!  You are effecting my life in a negative way and that really sucks.

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